Monday, July 31, 2006


That's My sister's car!! She's ok, dont worry, but i could honestly strangle her. You wanna know why her car looks like that?? Take a guess??? She was driving DRUNK!! My sister has this really bad habit of getting so drunk she can barely walk or talk, and then getting behind the wheel!! Ive told her what an idiot she is several times, but of course she doesnt listen. Her boyfriend messaged me on yahoo, saying thank God for you and people like you, that prayer for people, i was all like huh because i didnt know yet. So he is going on and on about how its such a blessing my sister is ok, and not hurt worse, well i guess. Don't get me wrong, im glad my sister is ok, but i dont feel the least bit bad for her, this is a stupid decision she constantly makes, and it finally caught up with her, and its not like someone driving drunk has not affected our lives. Our Nephew's father was killed because he was driving drunk, and wrapped his car around a tree!! So now im being made to feel bad, because i see the true miracle in this as being, she didnt hurt or kill anyone else with her extremely ignorant decision!! I'm sorry but i just cant feel bad for her!! Hopefully this will be a wake up call, but i doubt it, as she was not charged with DUI, and her boyfriends response was "that didnt have anything to do with the accident", I guess trees just jump out in front of cars these days and fall on them!!! I havent spoke to her, she is mad at me for feeling the way i do, maybe its harsh, but im sure the greif a family would have felt by losing a loved one to her stupid decision, is way worse than any Harsh words i have for her!! Posted by Picasa

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

I am so sorry for you Deena. I know what it is to have a family member that drinks themselves into a stuper. Thank God my brother doesn't have a license anymore, because of his driving drunk. You have every right to feel the way you do and you do not have to feel guilty and don't let anyone try and put that into your lap. You stand strong for your beliefs and thank God she didn't kill herself or some other innocent person. You hang in there and I will add you to my prayer list.

Anonymous said...

I can't help but to say how much I feel for what you're going thru. I've been there only my brother killed my husbands best friend by his decision. He still drinks and drives. I'll say a prayer for you and your sister. Hopefully she'll react differently then my brother who also was never charged.